This, in fact, I saw it in the Facebook wall of a friend of mine, and was followed by a lot of interesting comments.
But I don't know why, this phrase inspire me to write.
I mean, yes, I feel accurate, and at the same time not.
I don't really believe in the zodiac, but I am geminis, and what I believe is that in those beliefs, I am a person with an inside war of two different persons inside one body.
I overthink a lot, pretty much everything that happens in my life. But at the same time, I hate to do that, it's pretty much as If I do it automatically.
So if you are an overthinking person, you will understand that you have those moments of: "hell, I don't know what to think".
And in my almost 20 years of life, I've learned that, maybe that is the problem, to think.
I am not saying you should not think the things but what is the point of thinking about something that has already happened, I mean, you cannot change it, you just hurt yourself trying to convince about a "what if" that would never be more than a "what if".
If you take a look, you will realize, it isn't what it should have been, it is not a "what if I...", it is not a "maybe if...".
It is what it is. And you cannot change that.
You can learn and use that to make your future better.
Also, overthinking problems, simple, don't.
Problems pass away, you'll either find a solution or not. In any case, you'll have to wait.
Everyday I remind to myself: stop overthinking.
And it is as simple as I believe overthinking kills your happiness.
In the end, 99% of the things we worry are in our mind, it is worse what we think it is, or what we think it'll be, than what it is in reality.
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